40-something, happily married BBW looking for "female energy" in my life. Open to short or long term- heck, I'm open to just about anything. I'm laid back and drama free, as long as there is communication! Women preferred, but Couples possibly considered as well- if we all get along. If you are a solo women, I can play solo too. (DH would *like* to watch, but doesn't have to) If you are a couple, my man basically needs to be as involved as yours is- in some way. Open minded, and discreet. (also a little bit kinky, and willing to experiment!) I am patient, understanding, a great listener, and drama free. (I said it before, but it bears repeating!)

My Ideal Person I'm very open minded. I guess my ideal person/couple is someone I can talk to, has some education (or can at least fake it). Nerds and geeks welcome! Physical attraction is important too- however a bad personality is the biggest turn off for me.

Someone who is willing to take their time getting to know each other is important. Chemistry out of the bedroom is just as important as in!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Fetishes and kinks. I want to know about them, I want to hear
about them, I want to cause them and I want to help fulfill
them. <br><br>
I'm not into sex with strangers just for the "strange",
so don't lead with that. You have to have more to offer
than just a hard cock.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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