am not in shanghai...live in jakarta...but i couldnt change my cupid setting , so said i live in shanghai. Am married and have a . am bi and want to explore further my wild & alternate side. am a very senior manager, quite well known in some sectors, so a combination of this & being married makes it important for any friendship to be discreet. i take care of my looks and looks are important for me...

My Ideal Person have been at this site for some months now...made some interesting friends...but nothing that was exceptional...a few meets...some disappointments... maybe am choosy, but thats the way I am...am not into 3 somes and couples...i dont like profiles which are explicit & full of nudity...takes the mystery away & also the sensuality of a person. just turned gold, only for a short while....to really give this one serious shot...and hope to make that wonderful friend(s). Looking only for f-f interaction...friendship is the basis ( and so am also looking for straight f-f friendships too )...and let it evolve after that. have a few nice guy friends and they are for keeps...not looking for more. i do travel to singapore-bangkok-kl-hkk quite often and that ocassional trip to india-dubai...so looking for friends there too. if you are interested, lets get to know each other online and see if we are comfy to meet & take it from there.
Even if the girl/wife/woman is straight, we could still be friends.

IN INDONESIA:
i am very choosy about the friends I make in indonesia for obvious reasons. my partner should be attractive,nice, discreet, bi and preferably married like me, with no husband involvement.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
please build mine. prefer the real world...not much into
cyber either

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
celebrities dont turn me on

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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