A quick note for women/couples: I know that you're all used to the pushy messages, crude language and time-wasting nature of the notorious "single guy", but please try not to paint us all with the same brush. I'm equally as genuine as you, I see no point in wasting anyone's time (least of all my own; life's too short), and I've absolutely no sinister intentions in mind... just some "sexcapades" with a topping of fun and a side of laughter. One other note: at this time, I can only meet individuals who are based in Hereford and able to accommodate. Please heed this important fact before proceeding. Let it also be known that I am more than happy to send a face photo to anyone who shows genuine interest in me. General: - Male - 28 years - Caucasian/white - Experienced swinger Appearance: - Dark blonde hair - Blue eyes - Semi-toned build (avid cyclist, labour-intensive profession) - 5'7" height - Smooth-skinned - No piercings/tattoos/body decorations Perality: - Adventurous (there is nothing that I enjoy more than undertaking new and daring enterprises) - Fun (my #1 priority is to ensure that everyone involved has a good time above all else) - Uninhibited (I am scarcely overcome with nervousness, and I have no hesitations with anything sexual whatsoever) - Confident (I have an unwavering level of confidence in my abilities to please people, both socially and sexually) - Determined (I will always do my best to see things through to the end) - Egoless (I have not a single piece of arrogance within me) - Humorous (I find it easy to find common ground and "have a laugh" with others) - Laidback (very little bothers me - life is too short to be uptight over questionable subjects) - Genuine (I have never failed to turn up to an arranged meet in my many years on the swinging scene) - Courteous (I'm the guy who put the "man" in "manners") - Altruistic (I always place the needs and feelings of others above my own) - Understanding (I am an excellent listener and I will always respond to any problems with an immediate remedy) ^ That's my quid pro quo. Are you still interested? If so, then please read on for a more formal introduction: A big hello to everyone. I have been a part of the swinging scene for close to a decade now, and I absolutely love it. What can I say? I simply adore sex... and "variety is the spice of life", so why settle for just one per? Over the years, I have "swung" with many people and each has been a unique pleasure. I have met with singles, but my true desire lies with meeting and pleasing couples. I am a huge fan of MMF threesomes and still have yet to try FFM, but I know that when the time comes, I will wholeheartedly embrace it. Sexually speaking, I enjoy all the good stuff: kissing/fondling, oral, 69-ing, rimming, vaginal and anal sex, double penetration. I'm always open to new ideas, but I am definitely not into pain, bondage or anything of that nature. For those couples out there who are into the cuckolding scene: I played "bull" to a couple with whom I struck up a wonderful friendship for seven happy years on a "meet when convenient for us both" sort of basis. Sadly, they have recently moved beyond my reach, but I would very much like to find another couple out there who are looking for that "guy to fuck my partner on a semi-regular basis while I watch/join in". If you're reading this and my somewhat basic description matches your desires, then please do drop me a line. Finally, I have only one condition: absolute discretion. My working life is based very much in the public eye and I wish for all activities partaken by myself and associated individuals to remain behind closed doors because of this. I am looking for NSA fun and friendship - nothing more. That's all, folks. Thanks for reading. If you like what you've read and seen then I would love to hear from you... and please, don't be shy. We all have to start somewhere on our swinging adventures, so why not start with me? ;-) - D

My Ideal Person Anyone who is willing to have some good, clean sexual fun -- that's it!

Age, race, colour, height, weight, [et cetera] are all irrelevant to me, as I judge people by their character and personality, not by their appearance.

Someone who lives locally and is of an understanding nature would be ideal, as I have to fit meetings around a very busy private life (two jobs, hobbies, etc.). It would also help tremendously if you were available for meets on Thursday, Saturday or Sunday evening and could accommodate.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would love to be the centre of attention, as it is something
that rarely happens in my life. If I were to engage in a threesome,
or group sex, I would love nothing more than for everyone
to focus on pleasuring me in different areas simultaneously.
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Of course, this is merely a pipedream...but I am so used
to pleasuring others and receiving very little pleasure
in return. I suppose I am just looking to receive as much
as I give.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Foot fetish, and providing anal sex.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The majority of celebrities are too arrogant and false
for my liking. I prefer to fantasise about the people around
me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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