Hi! I'm a decent guy that likes attention - but not too much. I like classical music, the theater, long afternoons in the park and doing, well - just imagine. I am married and will stay that way. I am a stable family kind of guy and will always put family first. But I do support my friends and help them as best I can. I am looking for the lady who can be a companion and friend. She must be one who understands I am not available on a permanent basis but will make the very best of the time we have together. For me a perfect date is a concert, opera or play followed by a drink or two and some good conversation. Yes, I do like sex and am not at the age where I'm ready to give up on it. I'll be honest and say I do feel like a heel but sex is important to me and no, I don't get what I need/want at home. At the same time, know I am not going there unless there is some good chemistry. So understanding and friendship first. I am a very shy per and will likely not respond to you immediately. If you are the right per, ust be patient and I will come around and make it worth your while. If you aren't the right per, I won't leave you hanging wondering what's going on. So feel free to drop me a line with any thoughts or wishes you care to share.

My Ideal Person In the short term, a friendly, engaging conversation. Long term, a discreet, healthy relationship with someone who shares interests and values. Ideally, she will be an open minded woman who would occasionally like a sensitive and discreet man in her life.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Sylvia, Crystal Gayle, Tanya Tucker,

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Let's get to know each other first. ;)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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