I'm an athletic, intelligent, well-endowed engineer new to SoCal I'm currently spending a lot of time working out, reading by the pool, cooking, and trying new wines. I'd say I'm pretty well balanced between time spent indoors and outdoors, and I compensate for mild social anxiety with clever (to me) jokes and more confidence than is probably warranted. If you see something you like, let me know ;)

My Ideal Person A woman who isn't afraid of going out and trying new things, I've had some fun with kinkier adventures. Someone I can treat as a peer and not a princess. Having a hot body is great, but if we can't have a fun conversation a good connection is unlikely.

And spelling. It's weird but if your message is misspelled that's an instant turn off.