Been a swinger for over 18 years. Married, separated and now attached to my current partner for the last 13 yrs. We are active in the swing community and can be found frequenting local munches to meet new friends and potential playmates. Message for more details or check out the Ottawa Swingers & kinksters group here on AFF. Looking for friends to hang out with in and out of the lifestyle. Kink friendly top leaning person, that loves massages and sensation play. Vanilla me loves tea and books. Favorite genres are fantasy and erotica. I also bowl in a league. Hope to meet you...cheers!

My Ideal Person My ideal person(s) are between the ages of 30 to 60 and are local to me. Ideally they should be willing to be friends outside the bedroom doing vanilla stuff. Prefer someone who is open ENM.
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\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*as per usual, single females are very welcome. By ourselves or with my bf(and yours), whatever suits our needs and wants.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* single males, you need to be more articulate, no comments like are you down to fuck or hey or you're sexy. Be original and stand out or I will just not bother to answer your message.
Personality will tend to win over the physical anyday of the week with me, but I'll
admit chemistry(not body type) does play a part in initial meetups.
See you on the flip side! Cheers!